I'm Sharon

Your Calm in the Chaos

This is about you—your love, your people, your party.

Planning a wedding should feel exciting, but let’s be honest — it often comes with a million moving parts, unexpected hiccups, and way too many Google tabs open at once. That’s where I come in.

I’m Sharon, the calm in the chaos, the logistics queen behind the curtain, and your biggest cheerleader on this journey. With 20 years of experience coordinating weddings across Tulsa, I’ve seen it all — and solved it all — so you don’t have to.

My job is simple: protect your peace, anticipate what you need before you even ask, and make sure your wedding day flows seamlessly. I handle the timelines, the vendors, and the behind-the-scenes curveballs, so you can focus on what really matters: marrying your best friend and celebrating with your favorite people.

All that’s left for you? To laugh, cry happy tears, and dance the night away.

What Past Couples Say

“Hiring Sharon was the best decision we made. She kept us calm, kept us on track, and made our wedding day so smooth—we actually got to enjoy it!”

“She’s the perfect mix of hype-girl energy and total logistics queen. Every detail was handled, and we felt so cared for.”

Ready to Start Planning?

The next step is easy—fill out the quick form below. Once you hit submit, I’ll reach out with my availability so we can schedule a 20-minute phone call. This is your chance to:

  • Ask your questions

  • Share your vision

  • Get clarity on how I can make your wedding day effortless and joy-filled

A bride and groom smiling at each other outdoors, with the groom gently touching the bride's hair; the bride is in a white wedding dress, and the groom is in a black tuxedo, holding a piece of white wedding dress fabric.
Bridal bride holding a bouquet of white flowers and surrounded by bridesmaids holding parasols and bouquets outside a house.
Wedding accessories and invitations, including pearl jewelry, a bouquet, rings in a green velvet box, a vintage frame with a photo, a perfume bottle, and vow cards.
A bride in a white wedding dress holding a bouquet of white flowers, standing next to a groom in a black tuxedo with a white boutonniere, outdoors surrounded by green trees, during a wedding celebration.
Group of eleven men dressed in black tuxedos with bow ties, standing outdoors on a stone patio with a beige wall and wood ceiling overhead, and greenery in the background.
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Large illuminated marquee letters 'M + R' with floral arrangements on either side, set on a brick patio outside a building at night.
A newlywed couple in formal attire raising champagne glasses outdoors during sunset.
A man and a woman clink champagne glasses during a celebration, with festive decorations in the background.
Group of bridesmaids in matching sage green dresses and groomsmen in black tuxedos celebrating outdoors, holding signs and drinks, with trees in the background.
A table with white floral centerpieces, candles in glass holders, and glassware, set in bright sunlight.
Close-up of a woman with makeup drinking from a clear plastic cup with a straw and a dog-themed decorative stick.
A bride showing her marriage certificate with a big smile, while a groom in a tuxedo looks on and signs it during a wedding ceremony.
Table setting with a green cloth napkin, gold-colored fork and knife, a decorative hand fan, glass votive candle holder, and a table number sign with the number 11. There are also glass vases with greenery and a clear water carafe on a white tableclo
Wedding sign with schedule of events for Rustin and Madisyn at outdoor venue with trees and building in background.
Bride and groom holding hands and smiling as they celebrate their wedding with friends and family in a bright, modern indoor setting.
A bride in a white wedding dress and a groom in a black tuxedo posing with their wedding party outdoors in front of a modern building. The wedding party members are dressed in formal attire, with the women in light green dresses and the men in black
A group of women celebrating, with one woman showing off her engagement ring, surrounded by excited friends.
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Each planning package includes unlimited communication so you always feel you can reach out with questions or needed advice.

Outdoor wedding reception setup with long dining tables, white tablecloths, and gold chairs, adorned with floral arrangements and string lights, surrounded by trees.
Bride and groom standing in an outdoor setting under a chandelier with floral arrangements and sunlight streaming through trees.
WHY TWD

What Sets Us Apart

Why couples choose
Tulsa Weddings & Design.

Because your wedding day deserves more than a clipboard and a checklist.

01

I Actually Get You

Before I touch a timeline or call a vendor, I listen. What matters to you, what stresses you out, what your vision looks like at 2am when you can't sleep. I don't just plan weddings — I plan your wedding.

02

I've Seen Everything. And I Mean Everything.

21 years. 500+ weddings. I've handled boutonnieres that broke five minutes before the ceremony, florists who were late, and rain on outdoor ceremonies — all with calm hands and a straight face. I'll do the same for you.

03

Heart Meets Logistics

I'm the one who will hype you up in the bridal suite and then quietly solve a seating chart disaster before anyone notices. Equal parts warmth and professionalism. Your hype-girl and your logistics queen — all in one.

04

Your Vision Stays Yours

I'm not here to take over. I'm here to support you — stepping in exactly where you need me, with exactly the right amount of guidance. Your wedding stays unapologetically you. I just help make it happen.

The
Result?

"A wedding that feels effortless. That feels like you. Where you actually got to slow down, look around, and take it all in."