What I Believe

My planning philosophy.

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Your day should feel like you Not Pinterest. Not what everyone else did. Intentional, personal, and unapologetically yours.
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Presence is the greatest gift The couples who look back most fondly are the ones who were actually there — not managing logistics from the dance floor.
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Calm is a skill 20 years of problem-solving means I've seen it all. Nothing rattles me — so nothing has to rattle you.
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Details matter, but people matter more I obsess over the timeline so you can obsess over the moments. That's the real job.
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“Sharon, we can not thank you enough for everything you did during the planning process, but especially on the wedding day! You were always so calm and completely on top of anything that needed to be handled. We spend the next day reminiscing about the experience and just kept saying how amazing you were. We cannot sing your praises enough - thank you!”

Tracie, Mother of the Bride

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“Thank you so much for everything!

You made our day so special and beyond perfect!”

Madysin & Rustin

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"My husband and I cannot say enough good things about Sharon! We hired her as our day-of coordinator about 6 weeks before our wedding, and she was a lifesaver. She answered every question, worked seamlessly with our vendors, and made our wedding day stress-free. Sharon’s suggestions were things we never would have thought of, and her calm professionalism made all the difference. If you’re planning a wedding in Tulsa, hiring her is the best decision you’ll make!"


Kayla & Sam

Choose Your Level of Support

Every wedding is different. Some couples need a trusted expert to step in at the finish line. Others want guidance from day one.

Lets start planning your story here!

Tulsa Wedding Planner | Real Wedding Highlight at Pecandarosa Ranch by Modern Moments Photography

“Making Wedding Dreams Happen—With a Little Magic and a Lot of Expertise!"

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    Wedding Day Elegance

    Relax, laugh, and savor the moment while our expert day-of or month-of coordinators manage all the details. At Tulsa Weddings & Design, we bring the fun, take away the stress, and turn your dream day into a reality.

    Extraordinary events start with us—let’s make yours unforgettable!

    $1500

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    Partial Planning Assistance

    Need help bringing your wedding vision to life but don’t require full planning? Our partial planning services offer the perfect balance of expert guidance and hands-on support while keeping you in control of the big decisions.

    In our personalized consultations, we’ll break down your budget, recommend the best Tulsa wedding vendors, and refine your Pinterest inspiration into a cohesive, stunning wedding design. You’ll have the freedom to plan while we handle the logistics, details, and coordination that brings everything together seamlessly.

    Let’s make wedding planning easier—book your partial planning consultation today!

    Pricing starts at $2500

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    Tailored Wedding Packages

    From “Yes!” to “I do,” we’ll be by your side every step of the way. Our full-service wedding planning covers every detail—venue selection, vendor coordination, budget management, timeline creation, design curation, and so much more. Enjoy stress-free planning with expert guidance, personalized recommendations, and a seamless wedding day experience.

    With our hands-on approach, we’ll handle logistics, troubleshoot challenges, and bring your unique vision to life, ensuring your wedding is beautifully executed and filled with unforgettable moments. Let’s create a day that’s perfectly you—without the overwhelm!

    Pricing starts at $6000

Wedding Planning in Tulsa, but Ready to Travel

I’m proud to call Tulsa, Oklahoma my home, but my love for creating unforgettable weddings knows no boundaries. Whether you’re planning a local celebration or a destination wedding, I’m ready to travel with you to make your vision come to life—wherever that may be!

Based in Tulsa, but I’ll go wherever your dream wedding takes us.

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Real weddings @tulsaweddings

I plan weddings that feel thoughtful, calm and deeply personal- for you and your guests. My approach is rooted in seamless flow, clear communication, and behind-the-scenes coordination that lets everyone stay present.

Scroll below to see real weddings, real moments, and what this experience looks like in action.