7 Things to Remember on Your Wedding Day (That Make a Big Difference)

Your wedding day is going to be beautiful. But between the schedule, the emotions, and all the people wanting your attention—it can also be a bit overwhelming. After nearly 20 years of planning weddings, here are the seven reminders I give every couple to help them feel grounded, present, and joyful.

1. Eat Something (Seriously!)

Between hair, makeup, nerves, and excitement, it’s so easy to skip meals without even realizing it. But trust me—fainting during your vows is not the kind of dramatic moment we want.

Pro Tip: Set out a light, easy-to-grab spread like muffins, fruit, or protein bars in the bridal suite. You’ll need the fuel.

2. Delegate, Then Let Go

This is not your day to carry a clipboard. Hand things off to your wedding planner (🙋‍♀️), coordinator, or that Type-A friend you trust. If a hiccup happens, your team will handle it—while you soak in every moment.

3. Take It All In

Pause before walking down the aisle.

Look around. Feel the air.

This moment—surrounded by your people, stepping into forever—is sacred.

Let yourself be fully present in it.

4. Expect Imperfection

Something will run behind. Someone might cry too early. It might even rain. But guess what? None of that will ruin your day if you keep your eyes (and heart) on what truly matters:

You’re marrying your favorite person.

5. Sneak Away Together

Schedule 10–15 minutes during cocktail hour or right after the ceremony to step away—just the two of you. No cameras. No guests. No to-do list.

It’s often the first quiet moment you’ll have as newlyweds, and couples always say it’s one of their favorite memories.

6. Soak in the Celebration

Your wedding isn’t a performance—it’s a celebration. Let go of perfection, embrace the moment, and lean into the joy. It’s okay if your timeline shifts a bit or the wind fluffs your veil. It’s all part of the magic.

7. You Don’t Have to Do It Alone

Whether it’s timeline creation, vendor coordination, or calming the chaos behind the scenes, your planner is there to carry the clipboard so you don’t have to.

Let your job be enjoying the day.